Reduce Fear of Flying | Create Action
Create Some Action and Reduce the Fear That is Holding
Back Your Success
Fear prevents us from doing many things in life. You have
probably heard the acronym for FEAR - False Evidence Appearing
Real.
Often the things that we fear are built up in our minds to
become much greater than what they really represent. For
instance, take a common fear that many women have - mice. What
can a mouse do to hurt you? The answer is - virtually nothing.
So most of the fear of mice is from something that is falsely
believed in the mind.
Lots of people fear success. They believe, also falsely,
that money is evil. It is not. Money is a neutral commodity
used as a means of exchange. How can such a thing be evil?
These people do not want to become successful because of the
tainted money associated with it. To such people I always ask
this question: "Do you believe that you are evil?" Invariably
they reply: "No. Of course not!" Then I ask: "Do you believe
that having money will make you evil?" Again they answer no.
But they are still convinced that the money itself is evil.
This is because most of them have been mis-quoted a saying from
the bible, which they then perpetuate by repeating it
themselves: "Money is the root of all evil."
The bible does not say that at all. Here is what it really
says at 1Timothy 6:10 - "For the love of money is a root of
all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered
from the faith and pierced themselves with many
griefs."
So many people quote a mis-quote as justification for not
being successful.
I have consistently found that action reduces fear.
The longer you delay something the longer it has to fester into
fear.
A little bit of action removes a little bit of fear. Keep
going and more fear is removed. The more you do the more fear
is removed.
Things often build up in our minds disproportionately to the
reality that they represent.
Incidentally, in the example before where I mentioned people
not wanting to become successful because of their belief that
money is evil, here is another way of looking at it. If you
believe that you are a good person who does good things then
you can collect all this "evil" money and remove it from the
grasp of people who are evil and who would do evil things with
it. Take it out of circulation.
Create some action. Reduce your fear - real or imagined. By
injecting more and more action you will eventually eliminate
your fear. Test my belief. Find something that causes you fear.
Chip away at it. You will find that the only fear there is will
be the false evidence that appears real.
About the author: Gary Simpson is the author of eight
books covering a diverse range of subjects such as self esteem,
affirmations, self defense, finance and much more. His articles
appear all over the web.
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